1 · Two doors, two fates
Food iron comes in two forms, and they use two different doors.The heme iron in lamb, beef and liver sits inside a ring-shaped cage, and the gut wall has a dedicated channel that takes in the whole molecule; it is absorbed several times more efficiently than plant iron, and the rest of the meal barely affects it.The non-heme iron in plants first has to be reduced before it can get in, and tannins in tea and coffee and phytate in grains hold it back — vitamin C gives it a clear boost.
Across a whole day's diet the gap is smaller than a single meal suggests: Hurrell & Egli 2010 estimate that, in people with no iron stores, a mixed diet delivers about 14-18% iron absorption and a vegetarian diet about 5-12%. The big swings that inhibitors and enhancers produce in single-meal isotope studies shrink a lot in multi-meal studies with a varied diet, and a person's own iron status matters more than what the diet is made of.
So for efficiency of getting iron in, a small portion of red meat matches a big plate of spinach. But that is about efficiency, not about more being better — why becomes clear once you see what happens after the door.